I'd received an e-mail from my friend yesterday. I just want to share the content of that email....
1- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, hati kita akan berdegup kencang. Tapi di hadapan orang yang kita suka, hati kita akan gembira.
2- Di hadapan orang yang kita cinta, musim sentiasa berbunga-bunga. Di depan orang yang kita suka,musim itu cuma berangin sahaja.
3- Jikalau kita lihat di dalam mata orang yang kita cinta, kita akan kaku. Tapi jika kita melihat ke dalam mata orang yang kita suka, kita akan tersenyum.
4- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, kita menjadi malu. Di depan orang yg kita suka, kita akan tunjukkan imej yang sebenar.
5- Di depan orang yang kita cinta, lidah kelu untuk berkata-kata. Di depan orang yang kita suka, kita akan bebas berkata apa saja.
6- Kita tidak akan merenung mata orang yang kita cinta. Tapi kita akan selalu merenung mata orang yang kita suka.
7- Bila orang yang kita cinta menangis, kita akan turut jua menangis. Bila orang yang kita suka menangis, kita akan cuba untuk membuat dia gembira.
8- Perasaan cinta bermula dari kata. Perasaan suka bermula dari telinga. Jadi, jikalau kita berhenti menyukai seseorang yang kita suka umpama kita membuang telinga kita. Tapi jika cuba menutup mata cinta berbuah menjadi airmata. Setiap orang yang hidup akan mengalami ini dalam hidup mereka.
Well, last night presentation was suck....!!! I was frustrated and also a bit pissed off by one particular member (Mr C) in my group. We didn't hv enough data so we just went through with what we hv but it backfired at us. My group was the last group to present and Prof. was already in bad mood coz in average all groups' presentation didn't go well. We only hv 15 min to make presentation and Mr C used most of the time for his part. Just when I got started, time's up so no mark for that part. I spoke quite fast and stumbled over my own word. When I think about it, time's up already, no need for me to race to finish the slide. Huhuhuhu.......silly me. We hv about a month until final presentation and tonnes of work need to be done.
I'm struggling very hard right now. Juggling between two important things made me exhausted. As a matter of fact, ever since last January, I'd been sick (fever) quite frequently. I'm so tired that sometimes I can't sleep at all and sometime I sleep so soundly without having any dreams at all. I always sleep late because I need to sort things out for the next class and also need to finish my assignments and need to get up early to go work. Next weekend, I have 3days 2 nite trip to forrest in Hulu Selangor, Genting Highland-Gombak and Tasik Bera, Pahang. Can't imagine how tired I'm going to be........
Still, I need to focus and concentrate because this is important and I did sign up for this so I must be strong.
You’ve got butterflies, good conversation, maybe even great sex, but sometimes it can be difficult to be sure if it’s love. How do you decipher whether the feeling in the pit of your stomach is the nervous quivering of anticipation or yesterday's lunch? Luckily, Lovingyou.com knows that “fools in love” are easy to spot. Here are some tell-tale signs that it just be might be love, love, love.
You are best friends. You laugh with them more than anyone else. The feelings of anticipation, passion, and connection are mutual. You remember little things about each other like their favorite foods, the places they want to visit and why, their views on everything from politics to fashion, and what they love about their closest buddies, but is it enough? Take a look at these signs to be sure.
What he’ll do: Put you on his “A” list (pay attention -- You'll know if you're not on it) Introduce you to his family Make plans for the future (near and far) Do things outside of his “box” with you Share his secrets and his dreams for the future with you Worry about impressing your friends Come right over when you ask him to Try to do things that comfort you or relieve some of your stress (like surprise you with dinner on a night you are working, rub your feet, or ask about your day) Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions like giving you a massage after he gets one from you, doing the dishes after dinner, or sending you a gift
What she’ll do: Share her embarrassing moments and fantasies with you Little things all throughout the day that let you know she’s thinking about you Fantasize about her life with you, getting married, having kids, growing old, traveling the world, etc. Tease you Hang out with your mother or talk to her on the phone Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions, like offering to pay for dinner, getting tickets to a game or event she knows you’ll love, or cooking for you Ask questions about your life -- past, present, and future Flirt with you
How you’ll feel: Excited, yet relaxed Vulnerable, yet strong Comfortable enough to be yourself in front of them Like you want to include them in everything (but you won't desert your usual crowd to be in a relationship with them) You’ll miss them when they’re not around You can’t wait to see them, talk to them, play with them, and kiss them You’ll find yourself wanting to make plans to have them all to yourself You’ll have urges to do romantic things (maybe on the verge of stalker-like things) that you never thought you’d never do
Signs that it’s not love: They blow you off or cancel dates Talking about commitment makes either of you uneasy or nervous Either of you are seeing other people Things are moving too quickly for one of you You find your partner lacking when compared to other people You watch a love scene in a movie or hear a love song and you feel a strong longing or desire for what you don’t have
Tips before you commit: Take the time to compare who you have with who you know deep down that you desire and deserve. Likewise, compare the relationship you have with the one you know you really want. Pay attention to how they treat their friends, family, business associates, and strangers. This is a good indication of how they will treat you over time and a big insight into their overall character. Ask yourself how well you know them and how well they know you.
While surfing the net, i found this very interesting love story. A very touching story and i cried in the end (silently). If all men can be this faithfull and accept someone unconditionally.........This short story called 'A Silent Love'. Alongside with my fave song, Love Story by Taylor Swift.
A Silent Love
From the very Begining, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?"As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?"The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged.The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice......The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,.....it's still just silence cry that companied her.
Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying....The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment, the girl learn sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.
Do you think you don't know enough about yourself that you have to take a quiz created by God-knows-who to determine who you really are ? Doesn't matter the answer is yes or no, coz you're it!
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
Sabtu lepas, aku and all my classmates pergi satu field trip yang amat menarik sekali....huhuhu. Trip ke landfill (Jeram Sanitary Landfill)....!!! Trip ni satu kemestian untuk lulus exam. tapi ni bukan first time aku ke landfill, first experience aku ke landfill dalam tahun 2006 (Ayer Hitam Landfill). Landfill tu kat Jeram, Selangor, lebih kurang dalam satu jam setengah dari UM. Untuk trip ni, budak-budak undergrad pun join skali. Jeram Sanitary Landfill baru beroperasi dalam 2 tahun, menggantikan Ayer Hitam Landfill yang dah ditutup. Jeram landfill ni jauh dari kawasan perumahan & terletak kat kawasan palm oil estate.
Sampai kat landfill tu dalam jam 9.30 pagi. Briefing dengan landfill engineer agak lama & explaination yang diberikan agak menarik. Habis briefing, kami dibawa melawat ke tapak landfill (depan office admin je) tapi xde la sampai ke tempat sampah-sarap tu. Kami hanya memandang dari jauh. Aroma dari sampah tu memang 'wangi yang teramat', walaupun pakai mask, tetap tak boleh nak cover bau tu.....huhuhu. Then, kami melawat leachate treatment plant. Since baru je belajar pasal wastewater treatment, paham gak apa yang officer tu cakap. Lama gak berkampung kat treatment plant......dalam 1 lebih kami gerak dari landfill tu. Singgah makan kat Meru dalam setengah jam. Aku tidur dengan nyenyaknya dalam bas sepanjang perjalanan balik. Sampai kat UM jam 3.30 pm, sampai rumah dalam 4 lebih. Pastu terus sambung tidur......Memang penat gile!!!! Yang tak best nya, report field trip kena submit rabu ni. Dah la banyak assignment yang tak siap lagi ni. Presentation slide untuk rabu ni pun tak siap lagi. huhuhuhu..........
A girl who loves to read romance novels, watching movies & loves to travel. Currently a grad student + working full time. Life could not gets any better than this.....^_^ oh one more thing---- I'M AN ELF....!!
